I was being quippy - I didn’t actually mean it literally. I have plenty of useless information. I just think that this is probably a really pointless exercise; no one’s ever thought it would be pointful to document why we do that here.
then I could be the first!
Sorry, I think I’ve actually been having a panic-attack-out-loud for this whole bit of exchange, and that’s probably unfair to both you and bisexualintellectual who was also commenting.
I still feel like I want to know why, but I also feel like that whole ‘why don’t YOU’ bit was maybe less than kosher. I still feel like knowing things is an essential part of who I am/who I perform ‘me’ as, but in addition I understand why other people haven’t gone down this path.
idk, maybe I’ll work out how to be a real person one day.